If the wall is on your land
A wall standing wholly on your land is yours, and your neighbour has no general right to cut into it or load it. If they build an extension right up against it, the part that ends up separating the two buildings becomes a party wall under the Act's definition, and later work to it follows the Act.
If the wall straddles the boundary
It is probably already a party wall or a party fence wall, and your neighbour has rights to raise, thicken, underpin or cut into it, with notice.
Flashings
A neighbour building against your wall may cut into it to insert a flashing or other weatherproofing, provided any damage is made good. That needs notice too.
Paying your share, and theirs
If your neighbour later makes use of a wall that you paid for alone under the Act, they should contribute a fair proportion of its cost, valued at the time they start using it.
What to do
Look at their drawings, check what touches your wall, and answer any notice within 14 days. If work affecting your wall has started without notice, see work started without notice.
Common questions
Can their extension's gutter overhang my land?
Not without your agreement. The Act gives no right to overhang a neighbour's land.
Where this comes from in the Act
- Section 1: New building on line of junction
- Section 2: Repair etc. of party wall: rights of owner
- Section 11: Expenses
Links go to the official text of the Party Wall etc. Act 1996 on legislation.gov.uk.